TRUTH SPOKEN.

Yet another case we heard
Yes , A GIRL RAPED BY A BUNCH OF TURDS!
“What was she wearing?” , the society asked
The dead soul  replied ,” DOES IT REALLY MATTER?” THE TRUTH was masked.
The INVESTIGATION began after 4 days
When her family mourned and prayed.
All the family ever wanted was justice
No action was taken until the police heard of her demise.
She was brutally tortured
Yet no one bothered.

It’s OKAY to feel LONELY.

Some random times you feel you don’t have anyone to talk to. You have a bizarre feeling that every close person has abandoned you, Everyone is treacherous. Everyone is opposite of the temperament they show. Sometimes you feel like your own family bailed on you.

It’s an eccentric and heart wrenching feeling. You may cry too. But somewhere inside, you know that’s how it’s gonna be. There’s one person who’d never leave you and that’s YOU. Once out of the inner isolation period, you’ll realise that your family and friends love you but are they gonna stay forever? NO.

You have to be pompous, self- sufficient, self – loving and that’s how you grow towards being strong during the desertion and turn it into SOLITUDE.

Don’t break out into tears when you’re lonely instead perceive it as a blessing. 💞

IF YOU SAY IT, MEAN IT.

“SORRY”. This 5 letter word is often taken for granted. SORRY is just a pun used by everyone. We, as humans, often make mistakes and we say sorry for redemption. But do we really mean it? SORRY has lost it’s moral value. Human reflexes often use words such as “PLEASE”, “SORRY” but we tend to forget the actual reason for using it. We say sorry because we make mistakes but we do not focus on the fact that we shouldn’t make the same mistake again, Instead we reach out for redemption for the evil act we sometimes commit.

We say sorry because we are afraid of becoming an abomination for others. This reflects the selfish factor that lies within us. SELFISHNESS is the main reason that’s hidden behind the word “SORRY”. The intensifying pain people went through when they did something evil and the truckload of relaxation they got by saying sorry is a crumpled page in today’s teachings. Today’s youth has forgotten what sorry actually feels like. To be brutally honest , I until today, didn’t know what sorry actually felt like. My pensive mood led me to the essence of sorry. Thereafter, I say, *IF YOU SAY IT , MEAN IT.”

PARENTING

Today I’m gonna talk about a very concerning topic “parenting”. Millions of parents think that they are acing at the parenting task when actually they are failing. Many parents have a misconception about parenting. The perceive that parenting means to provide everything the child asks for. They actually forget a child needs to talk, to communicate with her/his parents. Understanding the child and listening to him/her would be the greatest gift of all times than providing materialistic things. Parents often fail to provide this. With hindsight, I’ve realised that children get chips on their shoulder due to frequent fail of their parents at parenting and so the child chooses  resentment and as a result , Suicides. Of course , by that time the parents realise their mistake and are filled with remorse and grief.
There are many factors which affect parenting: generation gap, difference in choices , difference in needs et cetera. And each one of us is aware that these factors are impossible to eliminate. So, going with the flow is the only option. But parents should try to develop emotional connection with their children. Turning children into spoiled brats and being concerned about their life and needs are two different things which parents don’t fathom out well.
I WISH SOMEDAY EVERY PARENT REALISES THAT A CONVERSATION WITH THEIR KIDS ON A DAILY BASIS WOULD HELP THE CHILDREN TO LET THEIR GUARD DOWN

MY PERCENTAGE JOURNEY

(FROM 66% TO 90.6%)

Namastey everyone,

Today, I’m gonna talk about my percentage journey from 66% to 90.6%. I’m in 11th grade and this year, in march I gave my board exams. For people who don’t know what board exams are….In India ,10th and 12th graders give an exclusively hyped up exam called BOARD EXAM. Children are expected to work hard and give their best and so the same was expected from me too. I, in 9th grade, got 66% which is a pretty bad percentage. And so I realized that I have to work extremely hard to live up to MY expectations of getting 90% or above. And it was 18 march, 2019 , I was going to my tuition, it was my first day. I reached late. But my sir is a soft-hearted person so he didn’t say anything. I gathered all the gumption and determination to start studying and so gradually I transitioned into an inquisitive person. It was actually hard for me to start studying on a daily basis and drop my carefree attitude. I remember I scored 45/80 in maths in my final term exams of class 9th and I got a 73/80 in maths in my mid term examination of class 10th. This was the time

I learned that I can achieve anything with my willingness to do so.

And the time finally arrived.

I WAS PETRIFIED.

I didn’t want to hurt my own expectations. I studied as much as I can. 26 February,2020 was my first board exam and the last was on 18 march, 2020. According to me, I did an impressive job! I never jeopardize myself by losing the hope of getting a good percentage. Also, got 98/100 in maths in my board exams.

With hindsight, I’ve realised that YOU CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING!!

CHANGE YOUR MANTRA FROM I CAN TO I WILL!

POST SCRIPT: I am not classifying scores as the only means of getting successful. My motive is to tell people that they can give their best in their chosen field. They should never lose hope. I have always found maths, a captivating subject, so I especially highlighted my maths marks.

HUMANITY STILL EXISTS

I tried to see people’s positive side.
But a sadistic world would never realise
the immense pain in a hundred tries
And failing again and again
A hundred tries, all in vain
Certainly, I was determined
But with hindsight, I sighed
I remember the good old times
Jolly nights and mellifluous voice of chime
People were one call away
I guess I’m a naive
I still believe humanity exists
My hope will still persist
I’ll look forward to that one day
When humanity will come back to existence
And the world will become a better place

-Naina bajaj (thatcozychic)

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